When a person turns into an Idea.
When all you miss is the joy you got from their soul
When sad events are wiped from your mind and only their good remains
When your heart is sad knowing its departed from them
When what you see in them now is Not what you want
It is then you know, believe, learn, that there is a special place in your heart; And forever you will love the Idea of the Love You Had.
Which has become A Love YOU NOW HAVE.
Use IT.